The following is advice from the Noble Sheikh Rabee’ bin Hadee Al-Madkhalee to brothers in Libya, emphasizing gentleness, love, and mercy with one another. Indeed it is a reminder for all of us. This meeting took place Wednesday evening Rajab 13, 1427 Hijri.
بســـــــم الله الرحمن الرحيم
الحمد لله والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله وعلى آله وصحبه ومن اتبع هداه
I advise myself, my brothers, and loved ones, for the pleasure of Allah, with what Allah advised the first and last of the people: indeed it is the fear of Allah, the Most High, and to have sincerity for Allah in every statement and action. I advise that you hold firm to the book of Allah and to the way of his prophet, sallahu alahi wa salaam, and to be upon the way of the pious predecessors in affairs of belief, manhaj, and mannerisms. I advise, as well, with brotherhood and having love in the way of Allah, and also everything else that this noble d’awah seeks. So whoever is blessed with these manners and beliefs has attained an immense fortune. Allah chooses for his d’awah (call) those who he sees fit for it, so be fit for this call, in terms of belief, manners, and actions, and carry out everything that this da’wah calls to, from the things that make the hearts love it, and necks turn toward it.
I advise with, after this brotherhood in the way of Allah, showing mercy and gentleness to one another. For indeed Ash-Shaytain strives hard; and the most beloved thing to him is division and disunity between brothers and loved ones.
Allah, The Most High, says:
“And say to My slaves that they should (only) say those words that are the best. (Because) Shaitân (Satan) verily, sows disagreements among them. Surely, Shaitân (Satan) is to man a plain enemy. (Al-Isra 17:53)”
The Shaytain has found people to hear and pay attention to this division, separation, and disunity.
So I advise with the fear of Allah, to realize the plots and plans of the devil, as well as the plots of the human devils against this D’awah, so be gentle to one another, have mercy on one another, and let each one of you be kind to his brother. If one of you makes a mistake, the other should advise with gentleness, kindness, and with wisdom. Speech, if it is made up of these mannerisms, it will be good, sweet, and accepted, but when a person’s speech is rough, mean, and bitter, the hearts hate it and flee from it. For this reason, the Messenger, sallahu alahi wa salaam, said ‘Kindness is not in thing except that it beautifies it, and it is not removed from a thing, except that it makes it ugly.’ The Messenger, sallahu alahi wa salaam, use to advise his companions if they went out calling to Allah, the Most High, in different countries, such companions as Abu Musa and Mu’aadh bin Jabal, may Allah be pleased with them both, he would say to them: ‘Make things easy and don’t make things hard, and bring glad tidings, and don’t cause the people to run away.’ So pay attention to these important affairs, they are affairs of manhaj, or practical implementation, that it is a must to be concerned with and carry them out in order to preserve the da’wah, and allow it to spread to this nation, for indeed the devils from the humans and the heads of misguidance have caused this ummah to forget much of the Islamic Beliefs, Islamic Ways, and Islamic Mannerism.
I ask Allah to give you all success, to unite between you hearts, and to remove the filth of the shaytain from you. Indeed our Lord hears and responds to the du’a.
Source: كلمة منهجية للشيخ العلامة ربيع المدخلي للشباب السلفي الليبي